Consider the following scenario:   You are feeling very frustrated with your ex-partner.  Every time you try to discuss important matters relating to the children, it degenerates into an abusive argument.  You discuss this with your 12 year old daughter, after she asks why mum and dad are always arguing.  You feel that explaining to your daughter how you feel about your ex-partner, will assist her to understand your position, and to accept that the arguments are not, in any way, your fault.   Which of the following is most likely?  

Consider the following scenario:

You are feeling very frustrated with your ex-partner.  Every time you try to discuss important matters relating to the children, it degenerates into an abusive argument.  You discuss this with your 12 year old daughter, after she asks why mum and dad are always arguing.  You feel that explaining to your daughter how you feel about your ex-partner, will assist her to understand your position, and to accept that the arguments are not, in any way, your fault.

Which of the following is most likely?